Thursday, February 17, 2011

Romantic Attachment Style Quiz

Your Attachment Style: Avoidant

Based upon your quiz answers, you appear to have an avoid ant attachment style. People with avoid ant attachments tend to have difficulty with close, intimate relationships. You may feel uncomfortable sharing your thoughts, feelings, and ideas with your romantic partner. In some cases, you might even come up with excuses to avoid intimacy.

While this quiz cannot fully describe every aspect of your attachment style, it can provide a basis for understanding more about your romantic attachment style.

stressIQ test 2

Your Assessment: According to your answers, 14 out of 20 possible stress symptoms are not a problem for you, for a stress symptom score of 70 percent.

You appear to have a few stress symptoms

emotional IQ test

Know Thyself...
Knowing your emotional weaknesses allows you to alter your lifestyle to improve your social interactions, time spent with family, problems in your relationships, communication between friends, workplace attitude and efficiency, emotional stability, and many other daily situations in which your emotional aptitude is utilized and challenged.
Your Weakest Emotional Category is:

Openness
Recognizing your emotional strengths is equally important. For example, strong assertiveness can be positive, assuming you are not domineering in conversations and relationships. Strong empathy can be beneficial, as long as you don't put the interests of others before your own well-being. Moderation is the key to successfully handling your emotions.
Your Strongest Emotional Category is:
Social Self-Awareness

Thursday, February 10, 2011

movie questions



  1. What were the factors that contributed to precious having low self-esteem?

The factors that contributed to precious having low self-esteem were:
·         The negligence of her mother
·         Negative experiences for example she experiencing teenage pregnancy
·         Child abuse
·         Excessive criticism again coming from her mother

  1. What signs of low self-esteem did Precious display?

The signs of low self-esteem that precious displayed were:
·         She always day dreaming
·         The fear she has towards her mother and finding help.
·         She was a school dropout because of teenage pregnancy.

3.      What defense mechanisms did Precious use to avoid dealing with pain? Give examples.

Precious used the defense mechanisms of
 Denial where by she denied the problems she was having at home.
Displacement for example she used to be aggressive to her teacher who was trying to help her.

  1. What neurotic needs did Precious over-use or display? Give examples.

The neurotic needs that precious displayed were the (NN) to restrict one’s life within narrow borders for example she always under value the great person she was.
The NN of for self sufficiency she became angry with herself and she wouldn’t ask for help became distant.

  1. What helped Precious increase her self-esteem?

·         She opening herself to the teacher and sharing the problems she was going through at home made her fear go away.
·         The classes she was taking at the school and getting along with the other girls.
·         The strength she found when her baby was born.
·         The fact that persons showed her what really love was.

  1. What signs of higher/increasing self-esteem did Precious display?

·         She was able to learn to read well with the effort she put to it.
·         Precious choosing have her baby and not to abort.
·         She fought for her both children.

  1. What did you learn from the movie?

I learn from the movie that no matter you should never let people bring down your self-esteem and be brave like precious to overcome any obstacle in life because life is not easy.

  1. Would you recommend the movie to others? Why or why not?

Yes I would recommend the movie because people can learn from precious and be able to understand that those things are really happening in today’s society and that there is help that is given to overcome those problems…

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

who I Was?

Who I was?


My uncle from my the side of my mom´s family had 16 years when a new born baby came and that was me. Everybody was just happy and joyful that I was born. To even say that even though I was little I receive a lot of gifts such as toys, and clothing and the most amazing thing love. When I started to grow my grand parents decided to do me a little gate so that I could visit them both from my dad´s side and my mom´s,because they were so close(separated by a fence). At 5years old I began to go to primary school where I started to interact with other children just like my age. I used to excel in every class. But when I was in standard I failed and I felt so sad because all of my friends manage to pass to a second grade with the exception of me. I had to repeat one year,and I did manage to make and it did compensate me because on standard two I got awarded the second place best academic performance and that showed me that things can be done with responsibility and great effort. From then I continued performing so well because one of my goals was to be able to attend the Corozal Community College after I graduated from primary school. With such great effort I was able to accomplish my goal because I did got accepted at the CCC high school. Even though I knew that more responsibility was coming I was very proud of my self. My first three years in high school was awesome I had good grades until I reached forth form which was my last years and I failed math. That year I felt that my whole dream was going to end because at some point in time I thought that was not going to make it for graduation. For me at that time was my greatest challenge I had to overcome so I talked with my parents and they were so considerate with me that they send me to take tutoring for math. And support from them and my effort and hard work made me graduated. As I went obtaining experience by such challenges made me clearly understand my aunt when she told me that to be successful in life we had to work hard and learn from our mistakes. And I had always wanted to be successful like she is. She is my role model from ever since I admire her.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

IQtest

Congratulations!
Your general IQ score is 98.



A person whose IQ score falls in the range of 90-110 is considered to be "average intelligence". 
An IQ is a composite of your scores across 12 distinct aspects of intelligence. Each person has a unique intellectual make-up, with strengths and weaknesses that affect their methods of understanding, recognition, communication and association. Using a carefully cross-reference scoring scheme, Test Cafe is able to accumulate a profound quantity of information about your natural intellectual abilities.